She actually wants to spend time with you, but she'll feel guilty if she tells you no. If you haven't had some one-on-one time with her lately, consider forgoing your plans and spending the evening together.
4. "You don't have to get me anything for my birthday."
Yes, you do. Don't fall for this one. If it's money she's worried about, try giving her something simple like a foot massage or a homemade dinner.
Translation: You've said something offensive, and she wants you to figure it out on your own.
9. "I'm all right."
Sometimes she really means it when she says this, but you'll need to investigate her nonverbal cues to find out if she's truly all right. You'll start to pick up on her signals more easily as time goes on.
Your wife's lies aren't intentional. She says what she does because she truly believes those things, or because she doesn't want to inconvenience you. Detecting your wife's lies requires observing her nonverbal cues. Don't fret; you'll understand her more the longer you are together.