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As your husband's new leading lady, it might be a little intimidating to meet his first love - his mother. While getting your mother-in-law's approval can be tricky, the effort is certainly worth it. As psychologist Dr. Deanna Brann told Huffington Post, the mother-in-law, daughter-in-law relationship is "the most critical relationship in any family system." If you're looking to get into his mom's good graces, it's probably not as hard as you think.
Don't treat a visit like a white-glove inspection
If your mother-in-law is popping in for a weekend visit, don't freak out - she's probably not there to check up on your housekeeping skills or your mothering tactics. Believe it or not, your mother-in-law is visiting just to spend time with your husband, your kids and (gasp!) you. Treating the visit as anything other than a well-meaning visit will just put you on edge and prevent you from opening your heart to someone who could potentially become a close friend and confidant.
Tell her how amazing her son is
Feel like you don't have anything in common with your mother-in-law? You two share one big commonality: You both think the world of her son (and your husband). Like any doting mother, your husband's mom can't help but love anyone who raves about her offspring - and, consequently, validate her parenting efforts. Be specific in your praise. Tell your mother-in-law exactly what makes your husband the greatest man to ever walk the planet - whether that's because he treats you like a princess or that he just really knows how to clean a bathroom.
Don't try to replace her
It may seem like common sense, but many a possessive wife has tried to chip away at the mother-son bond. If your husband and mother-in-law have a special tradition that just involves the two of them - like a birthday lunch or a holiday play - let it be. Don't take the non-invitation as a slight and definitely don't invite yourself; mother and son deserve some one-on-one time, too.
Bite your tongue
You already know that raving about her son will endear you to your mother-in-law. Adversely, complaining about him could cause her to put up some serious emotional walls. Like it or not, your mother-in-law is personally invested in your husband's character and personality, so if you need to vent, find a less partial listening ear.
From the way you make the bed to how you wear your pearls, you hate it when your husband compares you to his mother. But guess what? She doesn't welcome the comparisons either. So if your mother-in-law's pot roast is different than what you grew up with, eat it (both your words and the actual roast). Comparing your husband's mother to your own isn't going to help the two of you form a personal bond unique to the two of you.
Call her "mom"... or don't
What's in a name? To your mother-in-law, a lot! It might feel wholly unnatural to you, but don't write off the idea of addressing your husband's mom as your own. Still feeling uncomfortable? Fox News suggests confronting the issue head on: Ask your mother-in-law what she'd like to be called, then respect her wishes.
Make time - and put in some effort - for her
Out of sight should never mean out of mind - especially when it comes to your mother-in-law. Building a relationship takes some face-to-face effort, so if your husband's mother lives out of town (or out of the country), be willing to shell out the dough for airfare. She'll welcome the visit, and chances are you'll find you share a lot in common when you're able to spend some quality time together.
... and visit often
Even if your mother-in-law lives out of the country, forging a relationship with her will require more than that requisite "meet-the-parents" visit. Don't assume your trips need to be extravagant affairs; find affordable airfare with the aid of AeroMexico, and make a habit of paying your husband's family (specifically his mother) short weekend visits. This will give you the chance to get to know her better in short segments - something both of you will appreciate.
Kristen has a journalism degree and has experience writing in a variety of fields, including art and culture, health and fitness and financial and real estate services. Kristen has written for USA Today, SFGate and the Knot.