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The world will tear you apart a million different ways. Divorce. Death. Addiction. Hatred. Fear. It's difficult to be prepared for whatever may come your way and make your life fall to pieces.
If you do feel your strength is fading, remember these 21 things:
1. It's not the end. Not yet.
You still have time to pick up the fallen pieces in your life. It may not be as it once was, but that does not mean it cannot be any less beautiful.
Despite all the bad, you've found moments in this life that are truly beautiful. Cling to those moments when the bad seems like too much to handle.
8. You're not the only one who is struggling.
Some people may seem perfect in your eyes, but they have challenges and struggles that they don't let anyone see, same as you.
9. Don't lose sight of where you want to go.
Even if you were never a track star, you can relate to how hurdles work. The funny thing about hurdles is that you have to focus on the one that is farthest away in order to clear any that come before it. If you hold to what you want (and need) most, then you can better overcome the hurdles that are keeping you from reaching that end goal.
Again, be real with yourself and be happy that you don't have to be perfect. It takes a lot of the pressure off!
15. You don't have to have all the answers.
The hard truth is that sometimes life doesn't make much sense. That doesn't mean you aren't wise in taking a step in the dark.
16. Don't forget to laugh.
Once you stop laughing, the world automatically seems like a darker place. If you're looking for ways to laugh, you also will be looking for the good, something hidden in every situation.
17. Some things matter, and others don't.
Pick the right things to worry about. Nothing else really matters after that.
18. Who says you have to do this alone?
Sometimes we think we have to accomplish something on our own to seem stronger. But often it takes more strength to reach out for help. When you feel alone in your struggles, seek for help, from friends, trusted professionals, people whose first priority is to help you get back on your feet.
Sometimes you can't do anything except wait out the bad times. No matter how dark the night is, somehow morning always shines through. Without fail. It's like the earth is trying to tell you that no matter how bad it seems, there's always hope if we keep holding on.
20. It may not be perfect, but your life is not impossible to repair.
Your life may have fallen to pieces, either over a long period of time or overnight, but that doesn't mean it cannot be fixed. Some problems are not ones you should try to fix, it will only result in more heartache. Some problems seem like they take forever to solve. But hope is never lost, that is something you can count on.
Emily interned as a BrandView content writer with FamilyShare.com. She has also worked as a writing tutor and a volunteer creative writing editor. But if you want the more honest answer as to who Emily really is, she would describe herself as an avid bacon lover and film buff, with Grace Kelly class and an irrational fear of stairs.