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You may have found the perfect guy, but that doesn't mean you will live happily ever after. For any marriage to work, it requires daily effort and not just a small attempt either. You need to fall back in love with you husband every single day, or at least be reminded of why he first caught your eye. But don't worry, being swept off your feet with your true love is easy.
Here are eight ways you can fall in love with your husband every single day.
Words are a powerful thing because they can damage or strengthen a relationship in just a matter of seconds. In a relationship, it is important you use words to truly bolster and fortify your relationship. Complimenting him is a simple way to do just that. Every day, compliment your spouse on the little things. Don't always tell him how good he looks, but compliment him on how well he plays with the kids, what a great job he does at work or how easy he is to talk to, etc.
Flirty text messages
Managing busy schedules between you and your spouse can be taxing. Unfortunately, the most important relationship in your life, your spouse, tends to take a back burner to the crazy demands of life. It is important you let your spouse know that you are thinking of him. Send him a flirty text message telling him how excited you are to see him later or send a message just to praise him for his hard work. Letting your spouse know you are thinking of him will boost his spirits and make him more anxious to come home each night.
When you've been with someone for a long time, it's easy to feel like you already know everything there is to know about him. But your partner is always growing and changing and experiencing new things. If you don't know how to ask the right questions, you could miss out on the opportunity to rediscover your spouse.
When your spouse finally walks through the door after a long day at work, don’t ignore one another. Ask him questions about his day. However, don’t just ask general questions, be specific. Ask him when was the last time he laughed so hard it brought tears to his eyes, what stress is weighing on him most heavily or when was a time in the past that you fest incredibly connected with me.
When your husband comes home from work every day, try throwing him a love celebration! Run to him and jump in his arms. Smother him in kisses. Hug him till he can't breathe. Do this for a few days and coming home from work will suddenly be the best part of his day. He might even cut out a bit early because suddenly he's just as excited to see you as you are to see him.
If you want to continually fall in love with your spouse, you need to remember when you first fell in love. A kiss, a true love’s kiss, is one of the easiest ways to fall in love all over again. Every single day, give your spouse a kiss like it is the last kiss they will ever get from you. You’ll be surprised at how powerful that kiss can be.
Truly serve your spouse without being asked. These can be small things, but they can make a big difference in your relationship. For example, get up early to make him breakfast or pack his lunch. Send the kids away for a night and let him relax in the tub or in front of the TV undisturbed.
Anticipate his needs
When you anticipate your spouse's needs, you are putting him first. You are casting away your selfish desires and thinking about him. Think about how you can make his day better or how you can help him strengthen his weaknesses. When you think about what he needs most and act on that thought, you will have more positive thoughts about your spouse and want to spend more time with him.
Put kids to bed early
You and your spouse need to spend time together every single day. Even if you have only a few minutes before falling asleep each night, spend those precious minutes together. One easy way is to put the kids to bed early. By doing this, you can spend time talking, kissing or enjoying a date night. Time together is critical for keeping that love alive.
When you do have time to rekindle your relationship each night, don't just sit in front of the TV, do something special. Unbox Love creates a dating box that is mailed to you each month, and it is filled with all the contents you need for a date night. For example: There is a coffee date box that is full of all the contents you need to have a fun, intimate date with your husband. This is just one more tool to help you fall in love all over again. Click here to order yours today.
You may have found that perfect guy, but by doing just a few small things each day, and keeping your spouse in you mind throughout the day, that magical love you always dreamed about, the kind you saw in fairy tales, may just come true for you.
Courtnie is an editor for FamilyShare.com and has a degree in journalism. She has a slight obsession with running, newspapers and large fuzzy blankets. She currently lives in Idaho with her husband and two sons.