A mother's guide to a Christ-centered Easter

Easter shouldn't just be about eggs and candy. There is so much you can do to teach your children the true meaning of the holiday.

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  • Editor's note: This article was originally published on Power of Moms. It has been modified and republished here with permission.

  • There are so many fun, simple, beautiful things we can do with our families to celebrate the real meaning of Easter.

  • To help you develop your own Christ-centered Easter traditions, here are some details on what works for my family:

  • Lent

  • I came to love the idea of Lent when I was in college and my Catholic friends introduced me to the idea. Lent has now become a tradition in our family. A few weeks in advance of Easter (Lent is officially about 6 weeks long, from Ash Wednesday to Easter Eve, but we're not that precise), we each decide on something that we'll give up for Lent. The kids usually pick something pretty simple (like a specific favorite candy). I've given up sugar for several years but this year I gave up eating after 8 p.m.

  • We talk about how giving something up is a great way to work on will-power and be more healthy but that most importantly, when we give up something for Lent, every time we're tempted to do whatever we gave up for Lent, we have a chance to think about Christ's sacrifice for us as we make our own little sacrifice. I like that.

  • Decorations

  • A couple weeks before Easter, I set out some fresh spring flowers, pull out a pretty tablecloth, set out a bowl of pretty dyed eggs and voila – the house is all decorated for Easter. I love how eggs and flowers remind us of new life – what Easter is all about.

  • Easter week daily traditions

  • We have special (but very simple) activities we do each day of the week leading up to Easter. Thanks to great ideas from books and friends and some trial and error, our Easter Week has evolved over the years into what I've laid out below.

  • Most of the ideas below take 5-10 minutes and require little or no supplies.

  • Sunday

  • On Palm Sunday, we read Matthew 21:1-11 together.

  • Then, we we act it out (using weeds for palms and dad for a donkey…). The kids yell "Hosana!" and we talk about how wonderful it must have been for Jesus to see so many people embracing his message of love.

  • Monday

  • On Monday we read from the scriptures about Jesus cleansing the temple (Matthew 21:12-13). Sometimes we re-enact Jesus cleansing the temple (with a focus on how we can stand up for what is right and be firm and stern without being mean). Some years we've gone to visit a holy place like a temple or cathedral to feel the peace there and imagine how it must have felt to Jesus to see people showing so little reverence for the temple. We talk about how important it is to keep sacred things sacred and talk about what the word "sacred" means.

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  • On Monday we've also talked about Jesus's cursing of the unfruitful fig tree (Matthew 21:19-22) and how important it is that we use what we've been given to bless the lives of others while also talking about the importance of faith and how faith can bring miracles to pass.

  • Tuesday

  • On Tuesday we dye eggs (we always do the first one red by leaving it in the pink then the orange dye for a long time. I lived in Bulgaria for a while and that was the tradition there – the red represents death and the egg represents new life – great symbol of death and life coming together). We talk about how eggs represent new life and read about the new life Christ offered in the scriptures. Here are a couple favorite scriptures to read (and memorize together if you like) as a lead-up to the egg-dying:

  • John 3:16 – "For God so loved the world, that he gave his only begotten Son, that whosoever believeth in him should not perish, but have everlasting life."

  • John 10:10 – "I am come that they might have life, and that they might have it more abundantly."

  • We all have fun coming up with creative new ideas for decorating eggs. We've tried using Sharpie pens to make beautiful patterns. We've tried "tie-dying" eggs by wrapping them in tissue dipped in different colored dye. And when we're done creating beautiful eggs, we shine them up by rubbing them with a little olive oil and put them in a nice bowl as a decoration.

  • Wednesday

  • On Wednesday, we talk about Christ's parables and miracles (many in Matthew 25 – the parables of the 10 Virgins, the talents, and the sheep and the goats). We have some good kids' books about the parables and we also like to watch the video "Finding Faith in Christ," which beautifully depicts several of Christ's miracles.

  • Thursday

  • On Thursday we do a simple Passover-style supper with lentil stew and pita bread (you could get into a real Passover dinner – tons of great ideas on Pinterest – or keep it super simple with cheese and pita bread…) and talk about the Last Supper and the Garden of Gethsemane as we read about these events in the scriptures:

  • Last Supper – Matthew 26:17-35

  • Gethsemane – Matthew 26:36-46

  • Arrest and Trial – Matthew 26: 47-68

  • We also talk about how Christ suffered as he took the sins of the world upon him in the Garden of Gethsemane and discuss the Atonement a bit.

  • Friday

  • On Friday we talk about Christ's death and sometimes read parts of Matthew 27.

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  • We also talk about why people call this day "Good Friday" – what Jesus did for us was so very very good although it was so very very sad.

  • These topics can be tricky with younger children – this is hard, heavy stuff. But I've found that my young kids (starting maybe around 4 years old) have been able to understand things and feel empathy and love way beyond their years as we've watched videos, read scriptures and talked about things.

  • Saturday

  • Saturday (the day Jesus was resting in Heaven) is for the Easter Bunny and egg hunts and all that fun stuff. We usually have a neighborhood egg hunt on Saturday morning.

  • The kids and I make simple fliers and take them around to all the neighbors plus send out some emails and/or create a Facebook event. We ask that every child bring 10 plastic eggs filled with candy or stickers or other prizes. Usually someone does a few "money" eggs with quarters and one time even a dollar (that was a big hit!).

  • When everyone arrives for the hunt, some of the other parents and I keep the kids engaged with some games inside ("duck, duck, goose" becomes "egg, egg, chick") while some parents and teenagers hide the eggs in a clearly defined area (usually three to four front yards in a row). Then, we send out the little kids first for eggs followed by the medium kids, then the big kids.

  • At the end, we give a prize to the child who found the most eggs then we usually divide up all the eggs somewhat evenly and hang out with the neighbors eating candy for a while. We make deviled eggs for lunch and eat more candy. It's a fun day.

  • Sunday

  • On Easter morning, as soon as we wake up (while we're still in our pj's), we watch some video clips about the resurrection.

  • Then the kids head into the living room where they find some new Easter clothes (just spring church clothes they need anyway – often just a new shirt or tie for the boys and my daughter usually gets a new dress) and their Easter Baskets waiting for them.

  • I like doing new clothes for Easter because it helps make church extra special on Easter, symbolizes a new beginning, and hey, it's fun to celebrate spring by dressing my kids up in cute coordinated outfits.

  • After Easter baskets, we eat a special breakfast (eggs benedict is our tradition) and get ready for church (or if we have early church, we just have some cereal and come home after church for a special Easter brunch).

  • After church, we do a special Easter Egg hunt for plastic eggs filled with symbols of Christ's last week on earth (a piece of bread for the Last Supper, a rock for the tomb, a little cross made of sticks, some olive leaves for the Garden of Gethsemane, some nails, some thorns…). Now that our kids are a bit older, it's been great to have them read scriptures on a little slip of paper inside each egg.

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  • Our traditions are still evolving – and probably always will be. I'm always adding in new ideas people share with me and I've taken out a lot of ideas that proved to be more trouble than they're worth.

  • The main thing is that our children are starting to understand the real meaning of Easter. I'm so grateful for the chance I have, through simple activities like those outlined above, to bear my testimony of Jesus daily to my children during Easter Week.

  • I hope my kids will always think of Easter as a magical and meaningful holiday – a great combination of fun and thought and treats and tokens of the first Easter.

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Saren adores her five energetic, adventurous, precocious children but doesn't totally adore the mess and busyness and bickering that comes with them! She grew up all over the world, did her B.A. at Wellesley College and her M.Ed. at Harvard, did humanitarian service in Eastern Europe, and conducted training programs for teachers and enrichment programs for kids. But after she got married and had her five children, the real education and work began! When she's not trying to answer five different needs and questions at once, she writes and puts together programs for moms for the website she co-directs, Power of Moms. She currently lives in Ogden, Utah and loves reading, hiking, and biking with her family (or by herself when possible!). She often struggles with balance but finds joy in being involved in many things that are meaningful to her.

Website: https://powerofmoms.com

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