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How Raw Food Changed My Life!

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I felt blessed with a good metabolism growing up, and thought I could eat anything I wanted. I grew up in a household where everything was made from scratch. I remember taking my own lunches and getting made fun of for bringing wheat bread sandwiches. I peered longingly at the Ding Dongs and other sugary treats kids would bring, the white fluffy bread, and the candy and pop. "Why was my mom so mean to me?", I thought.

I remember the day I got $20 in the mail for my birthday. I grabbed my friend and ran to the nearest store and we loaded up a cart with all kinds of chips, candy, pop, cakes and cookies, and ice cream. $20 bought a lot in those days. We took everything over to the playground at our school across the street and devoured it all until we felt sick! When I left for college, I went a little crazy there too. FREEDOM from my suppressed lifestyle back home felt amazing.

Well, when I turned 39 yrs. old, my body said, "NO MORE! I CANNOT SUSTAIN THIS!" I had a breakdown emotionally and physically and was ready to die from the pain I was in. I remember being on the couch one day in so much pain I was begging for God to take my life. I didn't want to live in this body anymore! Luckily for me, He showed me a better way -- Raw Food was my answer.

I have been eating Raw Food for 4 years now and have gone though many ups and downs emotionally since then. When we change the way we eat or do anything that is attached to our emotions, our mind and body fight it. I had a sugar addiction that I thought was impossible to control. Being a cake decorator for 30 years was my way of making my addiction to sugar appear normal; in fact, I got praised for the amazing creations I presented to people. When I had to give that up, it was like a death in the family. I mourned the loss of my lifelong desire for a Professional Cake Shop and the ability to express myself.

I have found, however, that I can still be creative. The medium has just changed. I am now learning how to carve fruits and vegetables and how to arrange and present nature's amazingly bright colored foods in beautiful ways. I feel better physically, emotionally, and spiritually from changing the way I eat and now that is enhanced by the way I am able to express my talents with it.

I teach Raw Food Classes and share this lifestyle with all who want to learn more about it. I am currently writing a book and hope to further my creative outlets in many different ways that are not harmful to my body.

What is your story?

 

Sincerely,
Raw Chef Wendy

Discussion started by Raw Chef Wendy , on 77 days ago
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sunshinemommy

I am definitely going to follow you on Pinterest!  Your attitude and lifestyle inspire me!

71 days ago
 
hopefulmom

Thanks for answering my questions, Raw Chef Wendy.  It's nice to hear someone's personal story and the things they discovered.  You definitely make it sound appealing.  Just one more question: Do you ever get tired of what you eat?  Meaning do you have enough variety in your diet to not get sick or bored of what you eat?  

71 days ago
 
Raw Chef Wendy
Take a look at my Pins on Pintrest.com under Raw Chef Wendy. I have a fruit cake picture there and many other ideas I've pinned for fruit and vegetable creations. Enjoy!
74 days ago
 
Raw Chef Wendy
Thank you mamabear, your words brought me to tears. I have such a passion to help people and I am glad I am making a difference somehow. It is possible to make simple meals that are raw and even just do a few things like these:
1. Make a beautiful vegetable or fruit tray with a healthy dip for your kids to come home to and snack on instead of the usual pantry raid. The bright colors attract them and they love the tastes more than the typical candy and sweet treats the more they have these simple snack from nature.
2. Put out a bowl of berries. My kids will eat berries like crazy when they are available.
3. Instead of candy dishes, soak nuts like pecans, walnuts, and the harder nuts in water overnight or for a couple of hours to get the enzyme inhibitors off and they taste better too! They aren't bitter and they are easier to digest. Dry them on a paper towel for 8 hours in the air or in a dehydrator at 105 F. You can flavor them before drying with a little honey or agave and cinnamon, or try olive oil and your favorite spices. I love the Wild Tree spices because they have such great flavor. You can create many things with them.
4. For snacks on the go, make a gallon sized ziplock bag full of veggies the night before a busy day, get a small bag of flavored, sprouted nuts like the ones described above, and a bottle of pure water. It satisfies and the kids love it.
5. I will often take a variety of salads with me for business lunches instead of going out. I find a cozy corner and curl up to my large salad with 1 diced avocado, carrots, cherry tomatoes, cucumbers, radishes, celery, and any other veggie I have on hand. Then I put on a nice dressing and enjoy!
6. Taking your own food to get-togethers really helps too or I will eat ahead so I'm not hungry. People often comment on what I am eating and it really hurt my feelings at first, but I learned that they just didn't understand what it was I was eating and their taste buds hadn't changed like mine, so when they tried it they didn't like it. I use these as opportunities now to teach people about the benefits of Raw Food and tell them my story.

I hope those tips help you.
76 days ago
 
mamabear
Wow! This is just amazing! I am in awe at your beautiful story and the message that you are sending to us and all the people you are around. I love the fact that you clearly say that nobody is perfect and can change. The change doesn't have to be drastic if you don't want. With what you have said and your passion behind your words inspires me to be more conscious about what I put in my body. I really try to keep lots of fruits and veggies on hand for me and my family to eat. My kids are great! They would rather have those fruits and veggies over other foods. I am slowly realizing that they are good too. I know that the change is hard as a lifestyle change, but is it easy to prepare and make the meals? I am a young mom and I strive for simple. If I were to find a few recipes that were simple I think I would be more willing to make better choices. All in all, this is very inspiring!
76 days ago
 
Raw Chef Wendy
Thank you for all of your comments and questions. Here are some answers for you. I Researched the heck out of all of the books, websites, etc. I could find and really got an understanding first of what this was all about before trying it. Raw Foods are fruits, vegetables, nuts and seeds in their living state. They are not cooked above 130 F. to preserve their enzymes, which we need for digestion and for our bodies to use for cell repair, and proper function. I keep my meals around 105 F. to make sure none are lost. I use the finger test when making something I want to warm up in the skillet. It if is to hot for my finger, it's too hot for my body.

I decided to go 100% Raw right off, and after 3 days I woke up with amazing energy, whereas before I had chronic fatigue and had to have 12 to 14 hours of sleep. I slept all the time and never felt awake or energetic. After just 3 days and 8 hours of sleep I was refreshed for the first time! After 1 week most of my symptoms were gone such as: chronic and debilitating neck and back pain, chronic fatigue, hypoglycemia, constipation, no libido, headaches, brain fog, short-term memory loss, anger, impatience, no motivation, digestive issues, gas, and the list went on. But the longer I stayed on, the faster I cleansed and it became too much to handle. I decided to back off a bit and add some cooked foods back in and some salmon and eggs after having a mental breakdown. This calmed me down a bit.

I have been on a roller coaster trying to learn how to balance everything out. I am not 100% raw, but I do eat a high raw food diet. Sometimes I treat myself with some wild salmon or Organic eggs, but that is maybe once or twice a month. I eat sprouted nuts and seeds, and I create all sorts of delicious meals that are simple and very healthy. True Raw Foodists are vegan, but I restricted myself to the point of not feeling like I could eat anything! I remember calling my mom and sobbing and she said, "Just eat Wendy." so I did. We can become extreme at anything if we try too hard.

I feel energetic living this way and would like to become 100% raw vegan some day, but I believe my body needs time to adjust to this lifestyle after the abuse I gave it early on and from eating meat and dairy at every meal. I have also been working with a person who does energy clearing and that has helped me deal with the emotions associated with food that I have been shoving down. Yes, I still have times when I indulge a little, like at social gatherings. It is difficult to not eat what everyone is eating, but I have learned some tips and tricks to get through it.

I teach classes to help people learn how to add more raw foods into the meals they are used to and how to slowly transition over to more raw foods. I hope that helps answer your questions.
76 days ago
 
hopefulmom
That is quite a journey! When you say you eat raw foods, does that mean you are a vegetarian or vegan? You only eat fruits, veggies, and nuts? Do you eat anything cooked? I've heard of the raw food lifestyle, but I just don't know a lot about it. Can you give me an overview?
I know when you make big changes to diet it can be a very emotional thing. How long did it take you to go completely raw? Do you ever indulge yourself now? Sorry for all the questions, I'm just curious.
76 days ago
 
sunshinemommy
Thanks for sharing your story! I am trying really hard to incorporate more raw foods in to my diet. I didn't grow up on junk food but it wasn't restricted and I sure wish it would have been a little. It would have helped me to gain better eating habits on my own when I moved away and started my own family. Now I really try to incorporate more fruits and veggies in mine my family's diet. I also have gone on an eating program called Eat to Live and it changed my health a lot. Unfortunately I have fallen back in to some bad habits but I have a better knowledge of what is good for me and it helps me to make better choices.
77 days ago
 
Alyssa
This is such a wonderful story, and I appreciate you sharing it. It would be extremely hard to do what you have done! I love fruits and veggies, my diet is not exclusive to those things, but, like natbug said, I feel so much more energized and happy when my diet includes lots of the raw foods! Congratulations on your accomplishments!
77 days ago
 
natbug
Wow! That is a great story! I don't have specific events like you do, but, I do try to eat more fruits and veggies as I know food is better in it's natural form, and I know I feel better when I get enough of them into my diet. Thank you for sharing your story! Just FEELING better makes it worth it!
77 days ago